THE EXAMINATION SEASON | It is the bound duty of every parent, family members, teachers and well wishers of a student to encourage the students to face the examination with a calm mind. We can see that the students are preparing and writing the examination without any problem. However the thoughts of preparing and writing the examination create a tension in their mind. That tension can only be reduced with the guidance, support and encouragement of the parents, relatives and teachers. The guidance should be given with a smiling face and with confidence building words. The experience of great men, their messages and also the truths and facts about the exam should be presented to them. Your own experience while writing the exams should also be presented.It should be reminded that now a days thousands of good professional colleges are giving admission to even average students and hence getting admission for higher studies is not at all a problem. Variety of subjects can be taken as option for the students to build their future. Getting good marks and higher ranks are important but if at all the marks or rank came down, it need not be taken as a question of life and death. Like these, the messages of the parents should always support the children instead of using words of warning or threatening about the consequences of getting low marks or lower ranks. The students need full support of the parents before and during the examinations. The confidence building words given to them keep a confident mind and fresh brain. This will definitely fetch result in their exam performance.
One should also keep in mind that getting wonderful marks is not the measuring yard on the success or failure in the life. Many business men were not outstanding in their exams. Many of them may have talents in different subject areas. This should also be encouraged to opt for different pathways in their life. This also should be motivated. It is not necessary that everyone should become doctors, or IT , EC , or scientist. There are many many options for everyone.
We have seen that many students feel high level of uncomfortability when they are under tension while preparing for the examinations. This is due to the tension and which mounts to higher level when the parents become the judges and advocates for their own expectation from their children. This is in fact a glaring mistake from the part of parents who stand as though they are against their own children.
Your children can peform and they are good. Keep them in good mood and in good confident level.
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